ONLINE MARITIME JOBS OR COLLEGE OR ACADEMY FORUM: PINOY MARITIME

The place was pack with usual crowd, from fishing vessel, to car ship, to container ship to tanker... This usual crowd is the people i have to deal with day and night and thus required a patient of a saint, apart from tending to their needs of telecommunications and a never ending queries of where to get this? where to get that? I need to buy this I need to buy that all the stuff that they necessary lacking along journey I very much enjoy to be a helping hand to the boys..
Dealing with them is sometimes put me in a situation where i have sometimes walking in a fine line tread , those personal issue that this sailors is dealing with specially the faculty of marriage.. I have learned not to be prejudice and judgmental to any advice i could think off for them . Any advice i gave them is like the scale that can only be measure as just passing by comment without giving any inclination to take any of my words as a final conclusion to whatever they going true but merely a guidance...

Statistically 2 out of 10 sailor i dealt with belong to the statistic of "relationship that run a ground " some can be salvage some is in the point of abandoning the whole lot together, and some only required a new dimension to recover the sloughs of what you called trials and tribulation....
The reasons of some marriage problem is vary but mostly come down to the bottom line of "distant relation" or the time spend apart has finally taking its toll .. and sometimes they simply grow out of the relationship, specially to those one that have married early and realize that they have grown apart due to the time the sailor spent time in sea .....
One of the biggest agenda of the sailors life is an enigma of being apart to their love one...Trust will put to test, patience is measure, loneliness and any emotional hardship factor have to be set aside.Its a high price to paid for that economic institution of marriage .

Marriage a social institution , that recognized by law and abide by cultural custom, .. and does constructed by solid foundations, of two individual person with intimate connection, And defining your future to someone we chosen to spent our life with...

As a filipino who have a strong practice of Catholicism, separation is a stigma to our selves, marriage is a Union considered as a beginning till the end vows ... Its a compromise to spent the rest of your life with that individual... but what happen when your feelings is at stake,when that thing you called love is gone, and when somewhere along the journey you have met someone you considered soul mate, what about the issue of infidelity.. where you have to compromise your sanity and happiness... There s a lot to considered there's is a lot to define....

living in a loveless relationship is like a life that have no more meaning.. To a sailor who traveled a lot going 'home' is sometimes they only considered as duty , Children is another issue its sometimes the only thing that bind the couple into relationship.. the obligation to the fruit that have borne when that feelings is still intimate...
When the filipino seafarer voice out their problem about marriage somewhere along the fine line my hearth is always touch... I wish I could have alter their course the way they navigate their journey..This is a men who's facing uncertainty, where something in the horizon is looming but unknown to them of what future hold for them..
To be a sailor , to traveled the world free and get paid, yet the harsh reality is there's a harsh way to pay... Nothing in this world come free.. You could have everything and still have none...

Some seafarer is unfortunate enough to fall down to the category of broken marriage, The final closure to each chapter of our book of life, when the end finally met , and some is going true the long journey of healing themselves, forgiving themselves, accepting its over, and nursing the broken self... And hopefully find themselves a new prospective of life... another tale of a sailor life...